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Book cover featuring a hand with red nails giving the middle finger, titled 'The F*ck Them Theory.'
RELEASE. RECONNECT. REALIGN.

The F*ck Them Book Club

A private community for women who are ready to release what no longer serves them, reconnect with themselves, and walk in alignment.

JOIN THE COMMUNITY

This Isn't Your Typical Book Club

 This is more than a book club.


It's a community for women navigating growth, healing, boundaries, relationships, identity, and self-discovery.


Together, we explore the lessons inside The F*ck Them Theory and have honest conversations about what it really means to choose yourself.


No masks.

No judgment.

No pretending.


Just women doing the work of becoming.

JOIN THE book club

The Five Seasons of Becoming

CONDITIONED

DISCONNECTED

CONDITIONED

 This is how I became her. 


Explore the beliefs, expectations, family dynamics, and conditioning that shaped who we became.

ATTACHED

DISCONNECTED

CONDITIONED

 This is why I stayed.


Examine the relationships, patterns, and emotional ties that keep us connected long after they've stopped serving us.

DISCONNECTED

DISCONNECTED

DISCONNECTED

 This is what it did to me. 


Discuss the impact of survival, people-pleasing, burnout, and self-abandonment.

AWAKENED

DISCONNECTED

  This is when I saw it. 


 Identify the moments that changed everything and awakened you to the truth about your life, relationships, and yourself. 

ALIGNED

ALIGNED

 This is who I am now. 


 Discover what it looks like to stop surviving, start choosing yourself, and live in alignment with who you were always meant to be. 

Five seasons. One journey back to yourself.

Release. Reconnect. Realign.

Inside The Book Club

What You'll Receive

A guided 5-week journey through the five seasons of becoming.

Weekly Live Zoom Discussion

5 Weeks

Join Author Que and fellow members for a live guided discussion each week. 

Private Facebook Community

Private Group

Connect, share insights, and continue the conversation between sessions. 

Reflection Questions & Exercises

Self-Discovery

Apply the lessons to your own life through guided self-discovery. 

Chapter-by-Chapter Discussions

5 Chapters

 Walk through each season of becoming together. 

Community Support

Community

 A safe space for women committed to growth, healing, and alignment. 


The Five Week Journey

Walk through the five seasons of becoming, one week at a time.

Conditioned

Week 1

How I became her.


Explore the beliefs, expectations, family dynamics, and conditioning that shaped who you became. 

Attached

Week 2

Why I stayed.


Examine the relationships, patterns, and emotional ties that kept you connected long after they stopped serving you. 

Disconnected

Week 3

What it did to me.


Discuss the impact of survival, people-pleasing, burnout, and self-abandonment. 

Awakened

Week 4

When I saw it. 


Identify the moments that changed everything and awakened you to the truth about your life and yourself. 

Aligned

Week 5

Who I am now. 


Discover what it looks like to stop surviving, start choosing yourself, and live in alignment. 


Choose Your Experience

Choose the level of support that fits your journey.

The Becoming Community

Free

A free private Facebook community for women navigating growth, healing, and self-discovery. 


Included:


• Private Facebook Community
• Weekly Reflection Prompts
• Community Discussions
• Book Club Announcements 

The F*ck Them Book Club Experience

$97

A guided 5-week journey through the five seasons of becoming.


Included:


• 5 Weekly Live Zoom Discussions
• Group Coaching Conversations
• Guided Reflection Questions & Exercises
• Chapter-by-Chapter Discussions
• Author Que Q&A
• Private Facebook Community Access
• Lifetime Community Membership

The Alignment Experience

$197

For women seeking deeper support, accountability, and personalized guidance.


Included:


• Everything in The F*ck Them Book Club Experience
• One 60-Minute Quintessa Listens Session
• Personalized Reflection & Action Plan
• Priority Q&A Access
• Additional Support & Accountability

Choose Your Next Step

The Becoming Community

The F*ck Them Book Club Experience

The F*ck Them Book Club Experience

FREE


  • Private Facebook Community 
  • Weekly Reflection Prompts 
  • Community Discussions 
  •  Early Access for New Cohorts




jOIN THE COMMUNITY

The F*ck Them Book Club Experience

The F*ck Them Book Club Experience

The F*ck Them Book Club Experience

$97


  • 5 Weekly Zoom Sessions 
  • Group Coaching Conversations 
  • Reflection Exercises 
  • Chapter-by-Chapter Discussions 
  • Author Que Q&A


Limited to 20 women per cohort

Enroll Now

The Alignment Experience

The F*ck Them Book Club Experience

The Alignment Experience

 $197


  • Everything in the Book Club Experience 
  • One Private Coaching Session 
  • Personalized Alignment Plan 
  • Priority Q&A Access


Limited to 10 women per cohort

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